June 7, 2011

For the past several months, I have been mulling over the outline and content of the next book I’d like to write. The 100 Thing Challenge was enjoyable to do and to write about. I am satisfied with the book and hope that it continues to thrive. My plan, however, has never been to be the 100 Thing Challenge guy for the rest of my life.

Often people who read my book tell me this, “Thanks so much! Personally, I could never get down to 100 things. But I’m going to try to simplify.”

The truth is that the 100 Thing Challenge is not the way in which most people who desire to simplify their lives are going to accomplish their goal. Thus the 100 Thing Challenge can serve as inspiration more often than as model. I don’t have a problem with that, yet I do feel compelled to offer a simple living program that is more accessible.

Over the next several months, through the summer and perhaps into the fall, my intention is to write a number of posts here on the guynameddave side of my blog. These posts will follow the rough outline of The Little Goods Life, the simple-living lifestyle I advocate for everyone, and perhaps the title of my next book.

Thanks for reading and offering your feedback. I truly value your participation in this conversation.

Aspiring Differently – Part 1

Here is my aim. When you finish reading this series of blog posts you will think and act like a contributor. You will no longer reason and behave like a consumer. There is a tremendous need for people like you and me to make this transition: to go from mostly getting to mostly giving. Contributors, not consumers, are what the twenty first century needs.

A person thinking an acting like a contributor is focused on giving. “What can I add to this world?” A person whose identity is wrapped up in consuming is focused on getting. “What can I get out of this world?”

Here in America, there are too many consumers. The average American is doing a lot of getting and not so much giving. But excessive consumption is not a problem only found in the United States. When I was invited to visit Italy to promote my book, The 100 Thing Challenge (in Italian, La Sfida delle 100 Cose), I heard stories from dozens of people who said that excessive consumerism is familiar to Europeans. In the United States, Europe, and increasingly across Asia, consumer indulgence is the norm. This is a global problem. Consumerism is a human problem.

The normalcy of mass consumerism in the lives of millions of people has erected a barrier to everyday living. People feel stuck in stuff. As consumers we buy loads of things, but those possessions do not guarantee contentment. All the things we own often get in the way of us living satisfied lives. The truth is that mass consumerism regularly produces themes of unhappiness in our lives. Financial stress. Emotional and spiritual discontent. Messy houses! Can you relate?

Yet, I want to point out what you will already sense to be true. These feelings of unhappiness are not the most frustrating result of consumerism. Under the right circumstances we can live through the stresses caused by financial hardship, emotional and spiritual strain, and clutter. We can even come out on the other side of these trials better for having gone through them. You and I, just like all people, are resilient. We can grow from these stresses. These then are not the main problem we’re dealing with.

Mass consumerism produces a deeper tragedy than debt, discontent, and debris. This is consumerism’s most grievous affliction: it transforms our deep human longing to do something meaningful into a fickle compulsion to buy things temporal.

To be continued . . .


Comments

  • I very much look forward to watching this/you evolve. I have not owned more than I can carry for almost a decade and didn’t find you until recently – I’ve got a lot of catching up to do. Good luck and write on.

    moemasters June 7th
  • look this is all great..wonderful sentiments etc..but sometimes i wonder why we humans have to continually recycle informtion around and around.. for goodness sake the buddha outlined a pathway and way to live for human beings 2500 years ago.. it wasnt called the 100 thing challenge..but his teachings and the dhamma lead to that..and he didnt publish a simply lifestyle guidebook..but his teaching led to that..its all out there already..we just need human beings to wake up and become conscious…observe and investigate for themselves and find out the truth and the nature of reality

    greg June 7th
  • Greg, I don’t think the buddha was the first to outline simple living, nor will he be the last. That something has been said before is hardly a good reason not to repeat it. In fact, if something wise has been said before, it seems like the wise thing to do *is* repeat it. Interesting, though, that we people don’t reiterate wisdom or, perhaps more troubling, selectively repeat it.

    guynameddave June 7th
  • “it transforms our deep human longing to do something meaningful into a fickle compulsion to buy things temporal.”

    Love that, really puts simple living into a larger perspective.

    Combsy June 7th
  • Exciting! Shall look forward to following the series.

    Steve M June 7th
  • We are creators. That is how we are the “image and likeness” of God. We are not meant to be here to consume everything in this world, but to co-create a beautiful, just, peaceful, wonderful world. We have really missed our calling.

    Carol June 7th
  • Sell your possessions, and give to the needy. Provide yourselves with moneybags that do not grow old, with a treasure in the heavens that does not fail, where no thief approaches and no moth destroys. For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also. Luke 12:33-34

    Mike June 10th
  • I have met and exceeded the 100 Thing Challenge. Now, I need to focus on the rest of the house (husband included). The personal freedom of having less is wonderful. Simplifying my life has been a goal for about three years now. If the housing market ever gets better, I plan on downsizing my house too. We have too much space and if we downsize the house, we downsize the amount of our light and gas bills. Now, if I could just downsize my waist-line.

    Beverly Williams June 14th
  • How about a book dealing with downsizing online ? I for one have fallen into the trap of having to have a web page, a blog, a facebook page, twitter, tumblr – the list goes on and on … It is not just real things that cause head-mess, it is the virtual things too !

    Im going on a one-online presence challenge – and claw some time back !

    Ian June 14th
  • Well said Dave – as always. Hard not to be struck by how much we consume and how empty it makes life feel.

    Sean Marrin June 25th
  • You bring up a really good point about our society’s focus on receiving instead of giving. We want that quick rush that comes with consuming, but over time, that only makes us more discontented. If we would focus more on giving of ourselves, I think that while we might not always feel the benefits immediately (though sometimes it might be immediate), we would find that over time, our contentment could be sustained in a way that could never happen as the result of consumption. You know, that whole “give-and-ye-shall-receive” deal :o )

    I look forward to the continuation of your series!

    Katie July 7th
  • Hello Dave, I read your book … But my story does not begin here: I am a person who thinks long and deeply to Western society, our “affluent society” where people do not appear at all happy, usually, or at least not in proportion to all that has.
    I had in mind for a while to write something about it (although I delight to write and I could not live without my blue pen in ink and my notebook) … and maybe find a way to talk with others. Thus, at a time when unemployment began to write a blog; this blog, however, is born only after the news that finally made me take the initiative to open it: a person (who thinks of everything like me) one day said to me: “Hey! I heard on TV a guy who said you can only live with 100 things.” She lit a light bulb inside me! And I said: “That’s it … I discovered that I AM NOT ALONE.” So I opened my own blog (inspired by Chris McCandless and especially to his way of seeing life) with a post that was inspired by this phenomenal thing I had heard … and the last post talk about you again … Come for a ride if you want! And forgive my horrible english: I’m Italian (and – forgive me yet – but I do not like nor shout, nor make great eating with a noisy family, redundant, or to receive so many gifts!). Thanks for doing what you did. I understand very well what you wrote in your book: the challenge of 100 things is served to you first … but it is true that you had no idea how many we had to wait for your idea …??).

    Maristella

    http://borntobeintothewild.blogspot.com/

    Particularly: http://borntobeintothewild.blogspot.com/2011/02/qualcuno-ha-detto-che-si-puo-vivere-con.html

    Mary July 8th
  • Love the focus on contribution. I think that’s what it’s about at the end of the day (i.e., growth as an individual and contributing to others in a meaningful way).

    Take care,

    Joshua Millburn
    http://theminimalists.com